I'm a bigger guy and I'm able to use the Handy pretty well! I've had one stp from another company which was similar but a few key differences. This is a lot squishier and softer, the cup is longer, it's not as girthy, and its a lot lighter. All of which I was looking for. So yay!
I got the stp jock harness which if I ordered the correct size, I'm sure would be amazing. But, I thought I needed the 1x which is what I ordered. Really need a 2x. Oops.
I only gave it 3 stars because I just got it 4 days ago, and it's got a little tear on the inside of the cup. I haven't washed it any different from the other one I have. I've had that one for 6 months and no sign of tears. Both silicone. So idk. I came here to give it 5 stars, and then I noticed that spot.