I'm new to packing, as I am doing it for safety reasons rather than dysphoria so maybe it's just me, but this packer does look the slightest bit comical size-wise. You won't look like you have an erection, but you may look like you're packing a bit more heat than others. My suggestion is to ditch the skinny jeans and booty shorts while wearing this unless you want some looks southwards.
That said, it works just fine, feels soft, goes pretty well with my skin. I specifically bought this one knowing it might look a little big because I wanted to be able to use it for play. Have not had a chance yet to try it for that, but I can't see any reason it wouldn't be absolutely wonderful for oral.
If you're thinking about getting this packer, then do it. Don't worry about it being erect, the shaft is on the smaller side and looks good and gives a good bulge (doesn't look like you have a boner though) to alleviate dysphoria. Looks good in a jockstrap!
I have been looking FOR AGES for a packer like this; something that looks and feels semi-erect, isn't too big, and is easy to pack with. It has the absolute perfect texture -- it's not like a marshmallow like a lot of other packers, nor is it too firm to actually sit in my pants. The detailing is amazing, of course, and I love that the back is flexible (contours well) and that the balls hang below it. It is so inexpensive and I'm just amazed at the quality. It honestly reminds me of dual-density dildos despite being solid throughout. It's very attractive, and could very easily be used in play -- probably not PIV/PIA but definitely oral stuff. I'm just so thrilled and happy. Thank you so much!