I love this packer, it's very soft and comfortable. I found it hard to find packers that can pack to the side without turning around all together:) this one is flexible enough to pack to the side or up. I also started to like the flap cause you can just cut ir the way you need it. And I like that the back of the packer is not curved, on me, the flat part sits right on my pubic bone so the shaft starts right above my anatomy and the balls sit very well between the legs. the balls are super fun and soft too. I find that curved packers touch and rub more skin and I don't like that my body doesn't get any air then, when I am packing the whole day.
After almost a year of packing I figured that aesthetics are not the most important for me, but the size, weight and flexibility.
For swimming and dancing I use the smaller version of this packer. But idk about you, I have a mental and sensory Image of what my penis and balls are like... To get even closer I needed this packer to be this girth and ball size but 1-2 cm shorter.. maybe I'll try the cockit soft or another one in the future, but I'm worried its not as soft and flexible as the echos.