The AXOLOM Flexit FTM Harness fits me perfectly (I used the chart/size guide) and the material is very silky and soft. Honestly, I forget that I'm even wearing it! I love that the harness shows off as much of my packer as possible while holding it snugly in place. Even with a short tab, my packer never slips out. I wish the harness came in more skin tones so I could wear it more confidently, but overall I've finally found something that works for me. I'll definitely be buying more!