AXOLOM Flexit FTM Harness

I bought the Nexo Pack N Play Dildo - 5.2", in the color C4 (with movable foreskin).
The product quality is incredible; the packer looks almost like a real penis (especially with the movable foreskin option) 👍 It is very easy to wear with the specially designed Flexit underwear. The packer is easy to conceal, so it can be worn with various types of trousers without creating an excessive bulge. Overall, it offers excellent value for money, and I will definitely buy other Axolom products 🩵💗

Terrible quality, the waistband part started fraying on day 3, even though I’ve been washing it as instructed. It completely fell apart

ABSOLUTELY AMAZING! I went off underwear size (M) and it worked out perfectly! It gives me so much euphoria and makes me feel myself! I have a STP packer and it is my first packer, I've been simply stuffing it in my underwear but it felt very unsecure and made me very self conscious about it. The confidence this harness gives me is absolutely STUNNING! it even came with an adorable keychain of their axolom logo in trans colors!!!

The only complaint I have is shipping has never been correct for me, it will say it is in china but next day it arrives out of surprise. But IT IS WORTH THE WAIT!!!!!!!

Once it arrived, it already had some loose stitches, but after 3 weeks or so of wearing it (not everyday), I've noticed more bits of fabric coming off. Up to this point, it's held itself together pretty well, my packer (STP The Thinker) also stays in place all the time, even at the beach or playing sports, which is why I really hope it lasts even with these loose bits.

This is BY FAR the best harness I've tried, & I've tried a LOT. I was close to in between sizes, so I ordered a medium & a large (the light one is medium & black is large in the pics), based on other's recommendations to size down for "play". (For reference, I'm 5'8", 160lbs, 32" waist, athletic/muscular build with a fairly big booty & hips.) I'm honestly not sure I would recommend that, unless you are also close to in between sizes. For me, the large is comfortable for everyday wear, and still secure enough to handle "play". The medium does allow for a bit more vigorous thrusting, but with the tradeoff of cutting in at my hips. The "muffin-top vs secure control" trade-off is typical for play harnesses, in my experience, but honestly this design is SO much better than the others, you can get good control without having to sacrifice comfort & aesthetics by going down a size. That being said, the medium still isn't too tight, but I'm sensitive/slightly dysmorphic (dysphoria AND dysmorphia, yay!) about my hips.

I also really love it for everyday wear. I've been looking for a harness that would let balls dangle (for the feel in my pants, but also for play, *wink* *wink*), but still keep things in place. This harness does exactly that. I got the Au Naturel packer (also highly recommend), and I love walking around the house (naked, or in loose shorts/pants) feeling everything flop & dangle. It really feels like a part of me. Def a bottom euphoric moment.

I can't speak to STP usefulness, because I've never been able to use an STP without leakage, so I've stopped trying. But I bet it would be great, just based on how securely it holds things.

As for quality/longevity, I've only had them a few weeks (maybe a month), but I've worn them almost everyday, & so far no signs of wear. But I also usually just hand wash them in the shower when I clean my packer, and hang them to dry (they dry fast!), so I'm sure that helps.

I think they nailed this design, but I REALLY wish it came in more colors. The lighter color is too light, and black, is, well, black. If they offered the same "flesh" colors the packers come in (even if it wasn't all 8) it would be a GAME CHANGER for bottom dysphoria, because it would all blend in.

It’s worked fine for like the month I’ve had it but it’s already falling apart. The seams are fraying and the stitches and just completely coming out. I don’t think this thing is gonna last much longer and I haven’t even had it for that long. Don’t buy this harness because it’s literally going to fall apart.

This is what I tried to DIY for years with modified pants and a sewing machine but Axolom nailed it on so many ways. Regarding sizing, I usually wear European size M pants but XS fits perfectly fine for play. I think for pack I could go one size up but it's fine.

It's great honestly, if it didn't start ripping a month after buying it it'd be 5 stars. But everytime my partner sees it he says it looks like I got in a cat fight 😭 still, I'll buy more anyway 😂
It holds everything in place other than the fact that it kinda does this warping thing with my stp so I have to keep readjusting it-. Great for the reg packers tho 😭

1- very comfortable!
2-holds the nexo pack and play great!
It can be a little loose when thrusting so maybe Order a size down for extra security!
Have not used for a packer but bet it would work fantastic!
3- ordered a large, its secure yet comfortable for my body’s
I wear size large boxer briefs
I have a waist of 32-33 (belly button hight)
Hip line is 36-37 where I wear most things like boxers and loose jeans

I love this harness. You can pack very low with it, which is my preference.
For everyday wear, I am packing with DIY packing underwear.

I bought this harness because I wanted to be able to wear my packer without underwear on and feel naked while packing. This is perfect for that and great for wearing under boxer shorts so I can sleep in my packer.

In this photo I’m wearing the Flexit FTM Harness in Beige and the Pico Plus 2.8” (Cut version) in color C2. (I also wrote a review of that packer). I would love for Axolom to come out with more color options. This Beige has a lot of light yellow to it.

Size chart was accurate. My waist at my belly button is 36” and my hips are 37”. I wear size 32” jeans. I wear M size underwear.
I’m wearing the harness size L. It’s both snug and comfortable.

I just received the flexit harness in a size XL (I have a waist size of 38"), and it is both too small and the seems are falling apart. I recommend getting 2 sizes up and be warned that they may not give high quality product. I got it because I've heard of all the good reviews, and I have had previously had good experiences with axolom, but this last order has been atrocious. I waited 2 months to get my product until they finally sent me a new one, which I appreciate, but when they did the harness is falling apart.

I've got the squire and it's a bit hard to position because it keeps wanting to bed inside the harness

Its a good harness, but it detreads after a few washes.

For my first packing harness, it paired nicely with the Axolom echo realistic packer. I wear it almost daily. Saving up to get more!

Overall review: this is a great harness for keeping packers and stp's stable throughout the day. I have not had any issues with shifting and flipping like I do sometimes with packing boxers. It sits comfortable and doesn't dig into my thighs at all like some other harnesses have in the past.

Size: this harness is fairly true to size based on the measurements online but do not go based off of your normal size of boxer/shorts. I usually wear a small or medium but the xs fits me well and in fact is even a little loose for pack and plays.

Use: this is very comfortable and blends in well under boxers so you cant see it even in athletic shorts or just under boxers. This does pull away from the body a bit when using a pack and play with this.

Overall I highly recommend this harness for daily use and it's very practical for most packets. The harness even has its own little ball harness that hold the balls well of packers.

Excellent harnais pour packer soft au quotidien. Je l'utilise avec mon Pico plus et il est invisible sous mes caleçons, il maintient parfaitement sans serrer, on oublie qu'il est là !
Les testicules de mon pico plus ont tendance à sortir de l'emplacement prévu, mais c'est certainement parce qu'elles sont bien plus petites que la moyenne. La tige ne bouge pas du tout grâce aux élastiques.
J'en ai essayé plusieurs d'autres marques et bien plus chers et celui ci est définitivement mon préféré.
Pour la taille, je fais 1m64 pour 88kg, conseillé L mais j'ai pris X1 (soit 2 tailles au dessus), je me suis servi du guide des tailles des boxers suite à d'autres commentaires, et c'est parfait.

I’ve worn it no more than five times, not doing any kind of rigorous activity, and it’s already falling apart. Too expensive to be this quality

Comfortable. Fits “snug” but not tight or loose either.

It's great the size fits perfectly no trouble whatsoever not too tight not too lose for everyday wear

True to size and comfy