AXOLOM Flexit FTM Harness

Terrible quality, the waistband part started fraying on day 3, even though I’ve been washing it as instructed. It completely fell apart

ABSOLUTELY AMAZING! I went off underwear size (M) and it worked out perfectly! It gives me so much euphoria and makes me feel myself! I have a STP packer and it is my first packer, I've been simply stuffing it in my underwear but it felt very unsecure and made me very self conscious about it. The confidence this harness gives me is absolutely STUNNING! it even came with an adorable keychain of their axolom logo in trans colors!!!

The only complaint I have is shipping has never been correct for me, it will say it is in china but next day it arrives out of surprise. But IT IS WORTH THE WAIT!!!!!!!

Once it arrived, it already had some loose stitches, but after 3 weeks or so of wearing it (not everyday), I've noticed more bits of fabric coming off. Up to this point, it's held itself together pretty well, my packer (STP The Thinker) also stays in place all the time, even at the beach or playing sports, which is why I really hope it lasts even with these loose bits.

This is BY FAR the best harness I've tried, & I've tried a LOT. I was close to in between sizes, so I ordered a medium & a large (the light one is medium & black is large in the pics), based on other's recommendations to size down for "play". (For reference, I'm 5'8", 160lbs, 32" waist, athletic/muscular build with a fairly big booty & hips.) I'm honestly not sure I would recommend that, unless you are also close to in between sizes. For me, the large is comfortable for everyday wear, and still secure enough to handle "play". The medium does allow for a bit more vigorous thrusting, but with the tradeoff of cutting in at my hips. The "muffin-top vs secure control" trade-off is typical for play harnesses, in my experience, but honestly this design is SO much better than the others, you can get good control without having to sacrifice comfort & aesthetics by going down a size. That being said, the medium still isn't too tight, but I'm sensitive/slightly dysmorphic (dysphoria AND dysmorphia, yay!) about my hips.

I also really love it for everyday wear. I've been looking for a harness that would let balls dangle (for the feel in my pants, but also for play, *wink* *wink*), but still keep things in place. This harness does exactly that. I got the Au Naturel packer (also highly recommend), and I love walking around the house (naked, or in loose shorts/pants) feeling everything flop & dangle. It really feels like a part of me. Def a bottom euphoric moment.

I can't speak to STP usefulness, because I've never been able to use an STP without leakage, so I've stopped trying. But I bet it would be great, just based on how securely it holds things.

As for quality/longevity, I've only had them a few weeks (maybe a month), but I've worn them almost everyday, & so far no signs of wear. But I also usually just hand wash them in the shower when I clean my packer, and hang them to dry (they dry fast!), so I'm sure that helps.

I think they nailed this design, but I REALLY wish it came in more colors. The lighter color is too light, and black, is, well, black. If they offered the same "flesh" colors the packers come in (even if it wasn't all 8) it would be a GAME CHANGER for bottom dysphoria, because it would all blend in.

It’s worked fine for like the month I’ve had it but it’s already falling apart. The seams are fraying and the stitches and just completely coming out. I don’t think this thing is gonna last much longer and I haven’t even had it for that long. Don’t buy this harness because it’s literally going to fall apart.

This is what I tried to DIY for years with modified pants and a sewing machine but Axolom nailed it on so many ways. Regarding sizing, I usually wear European size M pants but XS fits perfectly fine for play. I think for pack I could go one size up but it's fine.

It's great honestly, if it didn't start ripping a month after buying it it'd be 5 stars. But everytime my partner sees it he says it looks like I got in a cat fight 😭 still, I'll buy more anyway 😂
It holds everything in place other than the fact that it kinda does this warping thing with my stp so I have to keep readjusting it-. Great for the reg packers tho 😭

1- very comfortable!
2-holds the nexo pack and play great!
It can be a little loose when thrusting so maybe Order a size down for extra security!
Have not used for a packer but bet it would work fantastic!
3- ordered a large, its secure yet comfortable for my body’s
I wear size large boxer briefs
I have a waist of 32-33 (belly button hight)
Hip line is 36-37 where I wear most things like boxers and loose jeans

I love this harness. You can pack very low with it, which is my preference.
For everyday wear, I am packing with DIY packing underwear.

I bought this harness because I wanted to be able to wear my packer without underwear on and feel naked while packing. This is perfect for that and great for wearing under boxer shorts so I can sleep in my packer.

In this photo I’m wearing the Flexit FTM Harness in Beige and the Pico Plus 2.8” (Cut version) in color C2. (I also wrote a review of that packer). I would love for Axolom to come out with more color options. This Beige has a lot of light yellow to it.

Size chart was accurate. My waist at my belly button is 36” and my hips are 37”. I wear size 32” jeans. I wear M size underwear.
I’m wearing the harness size L. It’s both snug and comfortable.

I just received the flexit harness in a size XL (I have a waist size of 38"), and it is both too small and the seems are falling apart. I recommend getting 2 sizes up and be warned that they may not give high quality product. I got it because I've heard of all the good reviews, and I have had previously had good experiences with axolom, but this last order has been atrocious. I waited 2 months to get my product until they finally sent me a new one, which I appreciate, but when they did the harness is falling apart.

I've got the squire and it's a bit hard to position because it keeps wanting to bed inside the harness

Its a good harness, but it detreads after a few washes.

AXOLOM Flexit FTM Harness

AXOLOM Flexit FTM Harness

Perfect Harness. Minimal enough to be in the background but strong enough to have fun with. Material feels great. Wonderful design.

Fits well and sits very nicely.

So far it's been working fine I have a real magic 7-in prosthetic custom-made cost me over $1,000 and this is holding it in place and keeping it there and I've been walking around basically for two days with it like that but just underwear on like boxers type boxers over it and you can't even really tell can't feel it nothing it feels actually like you're wearing nothing so far like I said it works great for me and your guys is Prosthetics are pretty expensive but I don't think there is expensive as or as intricate as mine. But thank you it's so far it's working great there's another one out there that they want to I was looking at but it's $130 so I just took a chance on this to see if this would work hopefully it doesn't break or anything during play but I will update later if possible

I bought an XS after following the weight height chart, but unfortunately it is slightly tight around the waist and slightly loose on the rear. Does hold the packer very well.

Todo perfecto mas comodo de lo q pensaba

Bought this for my friend and he says it's really comfortable to wear daily and for play

I was a bit afraid it won't fit as I'm over 100kg but it turned out to fit just right - I guess would suggest to add actual size of the waist to the listing as well as it could be of help with the choice. Otherwise the material is pretty comfortable and thin enough so that it doesn't make you feel hot. Great product 👍

It hold the pack in place that is for sure. But if your a bigger guy with some extra fat it fits awkwardly and trying to adjust it into the correct way becomes a hassle at times. The part that holds the balls in place with my packer sometimes comes off from moving