I’m a CIS bisexual male and I bought this as a gift for my trans man boyfriend. We use it in foreplay along with the Monsieur Wiggle when I go down on him. When he’s fully aroused, he switches to the Perseus Pack N Play for penetration. This lets him be comfortable in how he wants to be dominant in bed. It’s incredible how the realistic feel and look of all the packers/Pack N Play products give him the confidence to be in control when we’re having pegging sex.